Wednesday, December 8, 2010

How to make a girl squirt

There are many ways to make a girls squirt, and all is needed are fingers and oral job. The best advice is to try with exploration in different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass. Most important is to be innovative and inventive.

Surely, some of the best fingering comes in conjunction with oral, but there is a little secret that gives to any women best orgasm of her life.

Here are step by step instructions how to make a girl squirt:

You can start by performing oral on her inner thighs, clitoris and labia especially, to start getting her relaxed and wet. You must continually suck and lick the clitoris throughout the duration of the whole oral act, because oral increases power, pleasure and increases chances of female ejaculating orgasim.

With the hand you write with, take two fingers closest to your thumb (pointer and middle finger) and make them wet with her pussy juice or with your mouth. The most important thing is to make sure your nails are trimmed and not sharp, because you could hurt her.

Slide those two fingers in, with the fingerprint part of the fingers facing up (nails down), slide them in firmly but slowly, as far as they will go without using too much pressure. If she is really tight you may need to start with one, and if there is a lot of wetness but resistance, you may need to tease and taste her pussy some more. Once you get those fingers in, tease her inner walls slowly with the pads of your fingers, and get her even more juicy. When you think that she is ready to have the orgasm of her life, you may begin:

  1. Now you will maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes, every woman has one. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy (like you’re going up behind her clitty). Her g-spot is actually a patch of her inner walls which is on the FRONT INNER WALL of her pussy, above the hole itself. So, in, up, and back towards the entrance. You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. You’ve found it. Congratulations.
  2. By making a beckoning motion with your two fingers (a come hither, bending fingers motion), you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now.
  3. As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you’re doing it right, and she’s comfortable with it, you’ll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy.
  4. As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, start doing it harder. The more she thrashes from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you’re slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you’re still pressing up against that g-spot even as you’re slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon.
  5. Through all of this, she should be squelching, squirming and OBVIOUSLY loving it. If she’s not, you should stop. If she says it hurts (especially if she says it more than once, you might want to stop or at LEAST slow down or not do it so hard. Make sure she’s always wet, not dry for any period of time.
  6. Now here’s the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It’s just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but make sure she stays relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers) and that you KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that’s when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner.
  7. 10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON’T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She’ll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you’re prepared.

I guarantee you, if she’s never had one before, the squirting orgasm will be the best orgasm of her life. In my experience, 97% of women are capable of having them, and in certain circumstances, I think it’s more like 99.9%. If you want her to ejaculate in great volumes, have her drink lots of water before you do it, and stay well hydrated. Once she’s finished squirting, SHE CAN SQUIRT AGAIN. Especially if you didn’t do it too hard, and still got her to cum, you can usually start all over, and between one and ten minutes later, she’ll be squirting again. Usually, you have to do it harder each time. My record is seven. The girl that squirted seven times in 45 minutes passed out for 6 hours afterward (it’s physically exhausting and dehydrating) so be careful if you try more than 2 at once.

Most girls pass out after a couple of them. This can make a girl fall in love and at the very least want to fuck your brains out, so use it wisely rather than to your advantage. Don’t take advantage of people using this. If you do it wrong, or if she’s on her period, she might bleed. That’s usually okay, but just make sure you don’t hurt her, and you stop if she’s screaming with pain, rather than seks.

You should always have a safe word with your partner, and you should always make sure she knows what you intend to do and that she’s fine with it. Enjoy this, and I hope it works out for you; I hope it works out for HER, even more so. If it does well, just wait and see. I’m jealous of women because of g-spot orgasms! There’s NO male equivalent it’s just absolute ecstasy, nothing less. Remember there are at least fifty ways to make a woman cum (actually lots more) and at least five different types of orgasms so don’t limit yourselves to this whether it works or not.

These 15 sex tips left them dazed and amazed

There are millions of sex experts out there, and not all of them have radio shows. They're called "women," and

they're a hell of a lot more fun to talk to than your average Ph.D. They conduct all their research on their own bodies,

and they're much more likely to let you in on the experimentation. So here's what we did: We we went to the women

first, and asked them what works best. We're talking rockets' red glare here, bombs bursting in there. Then we consulted

the smartest seks docs around, so they could tell us why it worked. Now it's up to you to implement.

"Great lovers don't memorize complicated techniques. They master the simple things that give women pleasure," says

Lou Paget, a sex educator and author of How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure. Here's what she's asking for. The more

you give, the more you get. Simple, right?

"When I'm about to climax during oral sex, my husband flicks his tongue really fast along the length of my clitoris.

A few seconds of that, and walls shake."

Why it works: Most men think of the clitoris as just that little bud under the hood, but it actually extends deep inside a woman's body, explains Paget. When you flick your tongue quickly along its shaft, you're not only covering more territory, you're also creating vibrations that help carry your stimulation beyond the tongue's reach.

How to do it: The key here is to make sure that the clitoral hood is out of the way. Don't be afraid to pull it back gently

and then make quick, darting motions with your tongue as far down along the tiny shaft as your tongue can go.

"I love it when my man makes circles around my breasts with his finger or tongue before coming in for a nipple landing."

Why it works: Like the ripples that circle out when you throw a rock into a pond, concentric zones of sensitivity radiate

outward from a woman's hot spots. "The area surrounding erogenous zones such as the nipples tends to be highly

sensitive, too," says Linda DeVillers, Ph.D., a California psychologist and author of LoveSkills.

How to do it: Begin right at the point where her breast starts to rise from her chest, and spiral slowly inward with your

fingertips until you reach the nipple. Once you hit the bull's-eye, suck and gently bite. To really tease her, try circling in

until you just brush her nipple, then pulling back out for another tantalizing spin.

"All of a sudden, without warning, my guy stops midthrust. Then he goes super slow, entering me inch by inch for a

few minutes. It sets me off like nothing else!"

Why it works: The key to keeping her aroused is to keep her guessing. Predictability really takes away from pleasure –

not to mention that, in the beginning, too much of the same sensation makes a woman go numb, says Paget. But don't

worry, you don't have to do anything fancy to jumpstart her sensation; just stop. "Stopping and restarting a touch or a

thrust builds on the previous sensation, and it lets you skip up a few rungs on the pleasure ladder," says Paget.

How to do it: Pick a thrust and stop -- you can be inside or halfway out or just have the head of your penis touching her

vaginal lips. Catch her eye, pause for a few seconds, and start again. For maximum effect, resume thrusting in slow

motion and build back up to speed gradually.

"Before we make love, my husband often stands in front of me after I've undressed and holds his fingertips right above

my skin. He moves his hands all the way up and down my body. The sensation is unreal."

Why it works: Positive anticipation is a huge part of what turns women on, says Michael Seiler, Ph.D., sex therapist and

director of the Phoenix Institute in Chicago. By levitating your fingers above the skin so they brush those fine body

hairs, you're creating a delightful shiver up her spine -- and making her feel as though you appreciate every inch of her


How to do it: Help her undress (another anticipation stoker); once she's naked, take her hand and stand facing her. Brush her hair back and let your fingertips hover over the surface of her skin. You're where you should be if the fat part of your fingerpad is touching her skin ever so slightly. Now go ahead and run your pads over her arms, breasts, belly, and thighs.

Go to the next page and learn why humming during oral sex drives her wild...

"I love it when my boyfriend hums while giving me oral sex. And when he follows it up with very light finger taps, I detonate."

Why it works: There's a reason vibrators are so popular: Anything that shakes, rattles, or rolls primes a passel of nerves for peak sensation. "Any time you touch the skin with something vibrating, you transmit sensation to a wider area than you would through simple stroking," says Paget. So you're activating twice the nerves with half the work. "Top it off with a direct touch at the right time and to just the right place -- in this case the clitoris -- and you'll probably send her over the edge."

How to do it: Relax your lips (think Mick Jagger) and hum a tune (think "Brown Sugar"). Bring the outermost portion of your kisser in contact with the outside of her clitoris (the hood that covers the little nub) and her vaginal lips. Move your mouth around her clitoris -- very slowly. When she can't take any more, tap gently and in a circular motion with your fingertip on the swollen nub of the clitoris; or give it a few long, languid licks, staying in contact the whole time.

"As he's thrusting, my guy presses hard with his hand right below my belly button. I have the most incredible orgasim."

Why it works: On the belly-side wall of her vaginal canal lurks a quarter-size zone of pleasure known as the G-spot. The reason many women don't think they have one of these secret pleasure buttons is that the G-spot responds only to firm pressure -- and that may not occur during intercourse, explains John D. Perry, Ph.D., a sex therapist. But pressing on her G-spot from the outside while you're thrusting inside can bring her pleasure place into fuller contact with your penis and trigger mind-blowing orgasms.

How to do it: Since the exact location of the G-spot varies from woman to woman, you'll have to play it by feel. Start by gently pressing the heel of your hand into her belly button as you're thrusting. When she screams with pleasure, you'll know you've hit the target.

Seks and Love Part 5

Seks is an activity that requires equal amount of participation from both partners. Hence, prior approval is extremely essential before introducing sex toys to your partner. The first step in this direction would be to casually broach up the topic while your partner is in a receptive mode. At this point of time, it becomes your duty to clear all the misconceptions, which your partner might have about the use of such toys. You must also give them in-depth information about the toy you are intending to buy. There are chances that your partner might feel intimidated are challenged with this suggestion. Explain to them that toys are purely a means of providing additional pleasure to both of you and cannot take place of your partner.

The easiest way to do the sexual arousing romance with wife is to increase her sexual value. It is the highly positive thing that keeps the passionate roaring flames alive in relationship. When you blossom your wife with sexual arousing romance, she does more thoughtful things for you and worship you like a "Sexual God". She starts spending memorable time with you, falls in love with you more and tries her best to keep you happy always, emotionally and sexually. One of the best things you can expect is that she will turn herself into a sexual mistress wife for fulfilling all your wild sexual desires.

Unfortunately, romance with wife has been described in worst way. It focuses on having nice moments, once in a year or month, rather than enjoying your whole life like a sexual lion with passionate life and bigger territories. Do not take me wrong here, taking her out on dinner or date and giving her gift bring smile on her face, but only for the time being. These common things will only bring smile on her face but never turn her into sexual lioness.

Here's what you do: Give her adequate amounts of foreplay to get her aroused. Follow up with a dose of oral sex for a good 10 minutes. This is usually enough to heighten a woman's arousal so much that when you begin intercourse, she is potentially on the brink of an orgasm.

Now here's the trick: when you are about to come to a climax, pull out and go down on her again, making sure the transition is as subtle as possible in order not to break her momentum. The purpose of this is to allow your sexual arousal to come down so that you can resume penetration when you are sufficiently in control again

Firstly, an initial female orgasim will make subsequent ones during intercourse much easier to achieve. Secondly, when she has gotten her big 'O', you will be relieved of much of the "performance pressure." You will feel more secure and confident sexually, and that will help you last much longer in bed!

Seks and Love Part 4

When it comes to male stamina in seks, the unfortunate truth is that nearly every man has had at least one incidence where he did not last long enough in bed. There is a strong chance that almost every man has even had an occasion where they only lasted a minute or two.

When it comes to improving your male stamina, there are several things you can do to increase your stamina as soon as tonight. The question is, are these quick fixes the CORRECT WAY to go about improving your sexual performance and lasting longer while doing the "horizontal side-step"?

Not really! That being the case, I will go over some things that I have tried that helped me both immediately AND more importantly what helped cure my lack of sexual stamina so that I can last long enough to bring my partner to orgasm during intercourse.

Here are 3 tips to make a woman love you:

1. You need to be able to sweeten her up with a little bit of charm.

You don't even have to overdo this, because just a little bit of charm can go a long way to making a woman feel as though she is falling in love with you. What you need to be careful of though, is the fine line between charming a woman, and sucking up to her with the hopes that she feels attracted to you. When a guy does this, he is setting himself up for failure, because you really cannot make a woman feel that way just by kissing up to her.

2. You must be able to talk to a woman without any of those awkward moments.

One thing that you can be sure of, is that if you are feeling uncomfortable when talking to a woman, chances are she is feeling a little uncomfortable listening to you. You do not have to be a silver tongued kind of guy, but you do have to get the conversation moving along without there being many awkward moments.

3. To really make a woman love you, she has to look forward to when she will see you.

Well, how do you do this, you might be asking yourself? By being scarce from her life once in a while. You really do need to give a woman the luxury of missing you and feeling as though she is longing for you. The more that you are around her, the less likely it is that she will end up feeling that way. There is a thin line between being there just enough and being there too much.

These are all things that ANY man can do, but it is not easy UNLESS you can follow a simple step by step guide. If you can do that, you should never have to worry again about being embarrassed for crossing the finish line too quickly.

Seks and Love Part 3

Here are some reasons why many men fail in their bedroom:

(1) Men assume women want the same things as they do

This is very normal because most of the time we do not really know what other people are thinking. In trying to figure this out, we sometimes assume that others have the same thinking as us. This creates a lot of misunderstanding.

When comes to seks, he will think that the rhythm and intensity of his penetration is probably what she wants when he is making love to her. This will also lead him to misinterpret her sexual signals.

(2) Men follow blindly on the sex tips

Some guys really do make an effort to understand women and want very much to satisfy them sexually. They read women's books or magazine articles about sex tips. They check out women's magazines to find out what women are talking about and what they say they like. They hear about some lovemaking techniques that claim to drive all women wild.

The problem is what they are reading is about what one particular woman likes and the reality is women are grossly different in their sexual preferences. Not only that, what a woman likes can also change drastically with her mood and emotional state. It can change even more when she is with a different partner. With a different man, the chemistry changes and she is no longer comfortable with the same type of lovemaking that used to please her in the past.

Failure to realize that not all women are turned on in the same way will lead these guys to get frustrated with themselves and their women because they do not understand why the sex tips do not work.

A good way to avoid this problem is you should only try out a sex tip or lovemaking technique, which when read it, really turns you on. If on the other hand, you are applying a sex tip because someone told you that this will guarantee to keep your girl high, it can seem weird to her. She will probably sense that you are using her as a guinea pig to "try out a lovemaking technique" instead of being involved in making love with her.

(3) Being overwhelmed with some unfounded insecurities

Some men worry about being not attractive or sexy enough. Others are concerned their "working tool" not big enough to satisfy females. These worries affect men's sexual performance and confidence.

For a woman, your ability to feel at ease with yourself is the biggest turn on. She can feel your confidence and this earns her sexual trust which allows her to totally surrender herself and reaches orgasm.

In a woman's eyes, a guy who is comfortable with himself, who accepts his own sexuality and is confident about what he wants to do and what he enjoys in the bedroom is a great lover even if he does not read any sex tips or he does not have a big "sex weapon" between his legs.

To give a girl an intense orgasm there is only one sexual act that cuts the mustard and that is cunnilingus. Intercourse can give women orgasms but unless you are a stallion between the sheets then these orgasms are few and far between

Hope your woman receives some pleasure from those tips to give a girl an intense orgasim, I know mine does.

Seks and Love Part 2


Before flexing the muscles of this article, I want your proper attention on this important aspect. A woman always carries herself so well. It is in her nature to shine but most of the men restrict their girlfriend/wife and not let her glam up. In other words, those men get insecure.

Let me get this straight, you brutally kill the feminine side of a woman by keeping her unappealing. This is the worst thing that ends the excitement from relationship. Despite making her your hot mistress wife and providing her emotional/sexual freedom, you turn her into your buddy. This blunder decreases down her sexual values. Therefore, she fantasizes about other men in her most private time or becomes your ex. And on the other hand, you search for porn websites.

Take my words for this, when you keep her fitness in check, give her emotional/sexual freedom, order her to stay sexy and let her shine freely, she starts worshipping you like her god and never ever cheats, even behind you back. She does everything in her power to keep you happy and sexually satisfied. The more you let her shine the more she loves you deeply. Most importantly, if once you increase her sexual attractiveness, you always enjoy the passionate roaring flames in your relationship.

Above all, when you let your woman shine then it projects you as a real masculine man, not an insecure boy. Because of her shine, other women treat you with respect and yearn for you. Your woman not only brings quality women in your life but also earn respect for you from other people.

Also, it has been said that, "An exclusive woman in your arms proves that you got something which others not."

Here I am giving you some phenomenal tips that will turn her into an exclusive woman and stimulate her lust for you.

• If you want to do sexual arousing romance with wife then give her an anklet. It is highly seductive and keeps her thinking about you whole time. Also, she feels naughty and sexual.

• Make her wear high heels and let her glam like a super model. It makes her body hot and sexy. She not only visually excites you in high heels but also feels proud on her sexuality.

• Rub back of her skull with your fingers when she is in your hug. This move stimulates her wild emotions. One of the hottest hidden spot on her body.

• Give her specific luscious compliments. Your compliments about her body increase her sexual value. For example, "You got thunder legs that make me lust after you." Or "You are my sexy wild lioness."

• Rub her with back of your hand or fingers. For her, It is extremely sexual than rubbing with your palm.

• Give her small gift right after wild seks. This will make her melt. You can not even imagine that how much she strongly bonds with you, on emotional and sexual level, when you give her a small gift after love making session.

In a woman's eyes, a guy who is comfortable with himself, who accepts his own sexuality and is confident about what he wants to do and what he enjoys in the bedroom is a great lover even if he does not read any sex tips or he does have a big "sex weapon" between his legs.

Seks and Love part 1

5 sex secrets

One of the most foolproof ways to satisfying a woman in the bedroom is to make her deepest fantasy come true. This may seem difficult, but it isn't because almost every woman in the world has the same fantasy and this is to be ravaged in the bedroom. Women want to feel so sexy and so desirable, that a man can barely keep his hands off of her for even a second. Your woman wants you to tear her clothes off of her body and to take her up against the wall. She wants to feel that passion that she only sees in the movies and reads about in her novels. If you can give your woman this kind of pleasure, she will be putty in your hands.

Effective seks secrets and techniques can help you to provide your girlfriend or wife that over-the-top orgasm every time you deal in love and sex relations with her. Just hold on and get the knowledge of these in deep. You will surely have pleasure by going deep inside the oceans you want. Let the rivers flow and you flow in this river of sex and pleasure. Here are some of the sex secrets that can help you to improve your love and sex relationships.

1. Know the art and master the techniques of most effective and pleasurable sex talks when you feel.

2. Make your married life happier by having the more friendly relationships with your partner.

3. Sex cause pain and need to have some care and control. Be decent and polite and enjoy each and every part of your partner's body. Don't be in hurry and lose the fun part.

4. Use some sex toys and enhance the pleasure of having the sex. The intercourse toys are perfect to enhance the husband wife love.

5. Know the art of turning them on. Be it man or woman, all needs some time and feel to go on. Take your time and let the pleasure begin slowly. But take care that it should not end up fast.

You can be a better lover for your woman and you can make that a reality tonight. You can make her orgasim and you can do it faster than you ever thought possible. You can make her scream your name and you can be the best she's ever had.