Seks and Love Part 5

Seks is an activity that requires equal amount of participation from both partners. Hence, prior approval is extremely essential before introducing sex toys to your partner. The first step in this direction would be to casually broach up the topic while your partner is in a receptive mode. At this point of time, it becomes your duty to clear all the misconceptions, which your partner might have about the use of such toys. You must also give them in-depth information about the toy you are intending to buy. There are chances that your partner might feel intimidated are challenged with this suggestion. Explain to them that toys are purely a means of providing additional pleasure to both of you and cannot take place of your partner.

The easiest way to do the sexual arousing romance with wife is to increase her sexual value. It is the highly positive thing that keeps the passionate roaring flames alive in relationship. When you blossom your wife with sexual arousing romance, she does more thoughtful things for you and worship you like a "Sexual God". She starts spending memorable time with you, falls in love with you more and tries her best to keep you happy always, emotionally and sexually. One of the best things you can expect is that she will turn herself into a sexual mistress wife for fulfilling all your wild sexual desires.

Unfortunately, romance with wife has been described in worst way. It focuses on having nice moments, once in a year or month, rather than enjoying your whole life like a sexual lion with passionate life and bigger territories. Do not take me wrong here, taking her out on dinner or date and giving her gift bring smile on her face, but only for the time being. These common things will only bring smile on her face but never turn her into sexual lioness.

Here's what you do: Give her adequate amounts of foreplay to get her aroused. Follow up with a dose of oral sex for a good 10 minutes. This is usually enough to heighten a woman's arousal so much that when you begin intercourse, she is potentially on the brink of an orgasm.

Now here's the trick: when you are about to come to a climax, pull out and go down on her again, making sure the transition is as subtle as possible in order not to break her momentum. The purpose of this is to allow your sexual arousal to come down so that you can resume penetration when you are sufficiently in control again

Firstly, an initial female orgasim will make subsequent ones during intercourse much easier to achieve. Secondly, when she has gotten her big 'O', you will be relieved of much of the "performance pressure." You will feel more secure and confident sexually, and that will help you last much longer in bed!